Bad Sexual Chemistry Is a Relationship Dealbreaker
Many women (and some men, too) fall in love and think they can “fix” the person they’re with. He may have bad hair, she may smoke, he could snore at night or wear the wrong clothing. Most of these problems can be dealt with, but there some that cannot and sexual chemistry is the biggest.
A recent letter to The Daily Mail relationship expert asks this very question: Can a relationship survive when you have everything in place but the good sex? The answer, sadly, is a resounding no. If the sex is bad, the relationship must end.
Oh I know. I can hear the groaning from here. But the answer holds firm. Try as you might to believe otherwise, sexual chemistry is an absolute deal-breaker in a relationship. It may seem shallow, but it really isn’t. (more…)
Things that Scare Women About Sex
Men might always dream of having sex the way they do in porn movies. But sex can be fun and exciting only when both the partners share a comfort level. Are you aware there are certain things women feel uncomfortable about while having sex? Remember most women don’t have sex for the sake of sex, and they don’t want men to treat them like a sex kitten. Women like to get naughty, for them sex should be an outcome of love, passion and romance. To make life easy for both men and women, we bring you five things that scare women while having sex.
1. Anal sex Anal sex gives a different pleasure compared to regular sex, and it’s getting all the more common these days with couples, but you are advised to never shock her with it. There are women that don’t get aroused by anal stimulation. So men should always know what kind of women they are in bed. If it has been a bad experience in the past, she’ll be off it for the rest of her life. (more…)
Sex Can Make You Look Younger
Did you know that a healthy sex life can keep you looking younger? In fact, a healthy sex life could be seen as the fountain of youth, says a study from the Royal Edinburgh Hospital. It reveals that women who have sex at least four times a week were scored as looking up to 10 years younger than their natural age.
However, more than 1,000 women aged 18 and above suggests this doesn’t count for very much. Making love a few times a week is reckoned to be sexually healthy, but only one in three women were having sex a few times a week, and two in three were having sex once a week. (more…)
Sex is the Best Way to Boost Happiness
Making love boosts happiness more than anything else, a new research has found. The “Mappiness” project, which was run by researcher George MacKerron in conjunction with the London School of Economics, asked more than 45,000 Apple smart users to record their activity, location and happiness up to five times a day via a special application.
They received more than three million responses over more than a year and the results were fed into a so-called hedonimeter that tracked the nation`s mood minute by minute. The researchers found that Christmas Day was the happiest day of the year and people were the most content at 1.50 pm on 25th December.
They also found that there was a spike in Britain`s happiness on the day of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge`s wedding on 29th April, but people were at their lowest ebb on 31st January, at 8 pm. (more…)
Why Men Love Sex, Women Love Food
A new study has found it’s wrong to believe that men think about sex every seven seconds but, of course, they do think of it more than women do, as the latter think more about food than sex, says a new study.
According to psychologists from Ohio University, the oft-repeated seven seconds statistic about men is just a myth, as it would mean men thinking about sex 8,000 times during a waking day, the Daily Express reported.
The study of young adult men and women revealed that men thought about sex on an average 19 times a day. Some of the men, however, recorded 388 sexual thoughts a day. (more…)
Meditation Helps Ameliorate Women’s Sex Lives
Researchers from the Brown University in Rhode Island monitored the behaviour of 44 students, 30 of whom were female, and half of whom had taken a 12-week meditation course.
According to MyHealthNewsDaily, the participants were shown a slideshow of ” erotic” images and were then asked to describe their reaction as either “calm”, “excited” or “aroused”.
They found that the women who had been meditating were quicker at registering sexual arousal. (more…)
Why Bad Sex is Equal to a Bad Relationship
Although many people refuse to understand the enormity of sexual dissatisfaction in relationships, the fact is that sexual compatibility and appetite is as important as any other aspect of a couple’s life together. Today, Dr. Pulkit Sharma, Clinical Psychologist and Psychoanalytical Therapist at Vimhans Hospital, Delhi, unravels the mystery of why bad sex is equal to a bad relationship.
Bad sex as a mirror of relationship crisis: In many couples who come for counseling with complaints of sexual intimacy, it is often seen that bad sex is just an expression of deep-seated issues in the relationship. Either one or both partners harbor rage, envy and resentment towards each other and this gets mirrored in their sex life. Since sexual intimacy involves opening up to the other person, these people resent it. In such cases a change is possible by working on emotional and psychological issues. (more…)
